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Forgotten post | Long distance relationship

Hi guys,
honestly I feel bad for noting continuing with the schedule I planed or made more posts. I feel like my inspiration left for a while and I am looking for it. Not that I don’t like my blog I do I feel it has helped me gain confidence and made me a little more creative.

I love posting because I use it as somewhere I can write and write my true feelings. Today I want to share more about my long distance relationship, as you know my boyfriend left already and it been 1 month and about 3 weeks already.

To be honest it’s been the MOST EMOTIONAL year yet! I felt the last year will be a piece of cake, but it’s been the hardest. I feel we kind if lost communication, I don’t know if it’s normal or something is really wrong. I saw him not that long ago I felt so happy but he felt different. Like he was with me but his mind was somewhere else. It honestly scares me, that we’re together because we’re use to each other and not because of what we felt.

Everyone thinks different and it’s hard having a relationship now a long distance relationship is harder and has to have more effort. Which I honestly don’t know if I have any more.

I didn’t want to make this post super dramatic or with drama….I don’t really share in depth my relationship but its hard and its either going to make us stronger or break us.

***I actually wrote this a few months back, in April I believe. And now it’s been almost 5 months since I wrote that first part of the post. For some reason I didn’t publish it. But what I can remember it was a hard month. And it keeps being hard, for that moment I thought I lost my best friend…because that’s what my boyfriend is to me.

I want to post more for you guys and share my adventures but at the same time my passion which is makeup, fashion, and crafts. And also show more of my life style.

But overall long distance relationship is sooooooooooo hard. Now I am 2 years and 6 months with my boyfriend and we keep trying and making this better each day. All I have to say nobody is perfect and communication is the key honestly. And when you feel like something is wrong just say it and say what you really feel. Only 3 months for my boyfriend to be back and plans are to move in or even marriage. But we both decided since we’ve been far away from each other to enjoy our relationship as boyfriend/girlfriend a little longer.

thanks for reading, and stay tune for more things,

Didi

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Long Distance | Journal

Hi guys, I know I have been distance, and I have been behind with my posts. But I have a crazy schedule at work and a trip coming real soon so that’s taking my full time right now.
If you guys have been following my page for a while now you know that I have a long distance relationship for 2 years. My boyfriend leaves for about 7 months to another state to work and comes about 1-2 times in a month.

Long distance is a huge part of our relationship, and I know there are thousands that are going through the same or even worst. So I wanted to make like a journal, where as the months go by I’ll update you guys and give you tips/advice, and keep you guys updated.

So today marks 3 days since he’s gone. We were making plans to see each other on Saturday and spend our last “date” day together. On Friday one day before he called and said he was leaving the next morning. I felt bad to be honest….worst then other times. This time saying goodbye felt horrible. I actually cried which I have never done when we say goodbye when he has to leave.

At the moment I do really miss him maybe I’m not super emotional because we see each other maybe 2-3 times in the week because of work. But my first tips for when you just separated is not to get into that real quick… the feeling that you miss them because you’ll feel worst and its just starting.

Also keep in communication, and ask how they’re day was. It’s important to talk often, not in a annoying in their face way. Text them random love texts or voice messages. Keep the love going even though your far from each other,

Don’t talk about you want to see them already, or that you miss them that will make it harder on the person who left and make you feel sad as well.

A long distance relationship is hard and not for everyone. This would be the last year my boyfriend leaves in God’s favor. We do have plans of a future, which I am planning on sharing on a later post.

Hope you enjoy this little segment on my blog. And most important find helpful.

❤ didi

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New Spanish Blog ! | Diario de Didi

Good night, hope you guys are having a great start of your week. I am getting ready to start mine since I work from Wednesday to Saturday.

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I didn’t know what to post but I decided something quick and easy…I actually started a Spanish blog which is diariodedidi.wordpress.com (Didi’s Diary) which I basically post what I do here except that it’s in Spanish.

But I will be posting different content from this blog I did add a translator if you guys want to check out and show some love.

I do want to say the blog is still under construction and I am working to where I want it to be.

Don’t be afraid to show some love, like and follow so you can see next posts.

❤ Didi

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Growing up | jounaling

Hi guys happy Wednesday !
Hope you guys are having a wonderful day, today I returned to work after a week of vacation.

So for tonight I decided to sit down and just write. I have always been the type of person who likes to write. You know its either the person who loves Math or English…I was always the English type but I like more free writing where grammar and rules are not important.

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For today I wanted to write about growing up. Like seriously when did I grew up? I think about it more lately. I think more about my future, I have bills, responsibilities, other things to buy other than clothes and makeup how I use to.

I think about marriage, kids, birth control, my future business, my relationship with my boyfriend, and how in two years I’ll be planning my little sisters quinceanera.

WOW time flies. But I decided to live life. It sounds weird because every single day we live life but I mean wake up with a smile not grumpy, being grateful for he little things, having adventures…something that I really want to do is travel. I want to see the world, Paris, Italy, London, Rome, New York, Miami, the Mississippi River, Los Cabos, Canada, Hawaii, etc, etc ! ❤ Just writing about them makes me all excited.

I feel beyond grateful with the life I have and what I went through as a kid which was not easy it wasn’t the worst but it was hard for me. My parents divorce, my grandpa passing away, trying to fit in, being insecure was a big part.

Growing up does not have to be all bad, we just need to accept that we have more responsibilities, think about doing something twice before doing, and always think about the consequences it might bring our future.

I love doing these types of posts, not only am I interested in fashion and makeup but I love journalism I feel like Carrie Bradshaw(from Sex in the City). I hope you guys enjoy them too as much as I like writing them, it inspires and distresses me I like to write as in therapy. I totally recommend it !

If you enjoyed this or like personal posts feel free to let me know or like depending on the results I’ll make more.

Good night! ❤ didi

 

 

 

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My Blog Schedule| beautytime101

Since I didn’t post anything Friday or Saturday, that’s why I’m doing it double today. And also to let you guys know about my schedule and know what day I’ll be posting what. I’m trying to make changes to my blog but good changes. My page is still under construction by the way.

So here it is….

  • Monday: Item to try/Beauty Reviews
  • Tuesday: Movie/TV Show Reviews
  • Wednesday: Crafts/ Home Decor/ Pinterest Finds
  • Thursday: OOTD
  • Friday: Beauty Tips
  • Saturday: Disney (ootds, makeup looks, tags, etc)
  • Sunday: Personal Post

If you have any suggestions on changing a topic be glad to comment, like I said I want to make good changes to my blog.

Good night and until tomorrow ! ❤ Didi

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Get to know me ! <3

Hello good night it is currently 7:31 pm where I am and I just got off work and eating chicken quesadillas ❤

So I got back to work still felt kind of bad but I couldn’t just leave and I had to hold on to everything I was feeling and not pay attention to the pressure and do my best.

I got bad news today which was that I might not be able to go to Disneyland anymore, which sucks especially because I had planned to go since this month was our second anniversary. But still have my hopes up that we do go which is next Saturday.

So again today I don’t know what to post about but I am just going to wing it and I do apologize I promise to get more organized with my topics and which day I’ll do what.

But since I have been having a lot of new followers I decided to do another get to know me post. I have several if interested here.

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  1. I am currently working at a Call Center.
  2. I want to have a Beauty and the Beast themed wedding.
  3. I like to drink Clamato by it self (tomatoe juice).
  4. I like decorating the house in every holiday ( I have my house Valentines day themed already!!)
  5. My favorite Princess at the moment is Belle.
  6. I am currently watching The Carrie Diaries on Netflix and I am obsessed.
  7. I kind of want to low-key be engaged this year.
  8. When I have my own house I want to have my own beauty room and make videos on Youtube.
  9. I hate making lunch for work I feel I make it more complicated then how it is.
  10. I currently have like a high ombre in my hair and its grey (granny hair).
  11. I am not a cooking type of gal but when I do it can be interesting for me.
  12. Everyday I have to drink water and eat fruit if I don’t I feel weird.
  13. I love chocolate covered raisin.
  14. I also love eating buffalo boneless.
  15. I want to go on a trip real soon, maybe to Rosarito(Mexico), New York, or Can Cun which are on my top list for this year.

Any suggestion on what you want to see next? Any thing you might want to know about me, feel free to comment and also editing tips. If you have gone to my page its under construction I am not quite happy with the background. And I just changed the banner.

Goodnight, Didi ❤

 

 

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How to deal with Long Distance Relationship? | Didi’s Life

Hi Loves, happy Tuesday!

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As promised here I am once again with another post. I got of work about two hours ago, I worked out, showered, and now ready to see some Netflix…Any suggestions of what is good to watch?

So I have been in a Long Distance Relationship for what seems has been all my relationship. I already have 2 years with my boyfriend. Did I believe I would make it to our second anniversary? Honestly….no.

Having a long distance relationship is HARD, emotional, tiring, confusing….did I say hard?

But along with the bad things also some good comes along. For example the time you actually get to see each other. The plans, and goals you have especially if your in a more mature relationship.

For me I do want to marry my boyfriend. My plans are to marry him and have our own place and have a family. I am pretty young for most people, but for me 23 is just a number. I will be ready when I am if that’s next month or in 10 years.

Just because your in a relationship with someone that is far away doesn’t mean you should put your life aside. Or that just because he doesn’t texts or calls you means he does not love you. Trust me I learned !

With a long distance a lot comes in, for example is of two people putting their effort, use skype, whatsap, instagram, etc any app that helps you communicate. Find a way to have an intimate time(and no I just don’t mean sexual) but find time to actually sit down and talk and yous seriously have to talk if not you’ll loose that communication. But at the same time give each other space.

I’ve always said we have to learn to be far away from each other to learn how to be together. It’s hard saying goodbye but when it comes for him to come back it’s the best feeling ever!

My boyfriend leaves for about 7 months to another state to work, he sometimes comes once or twice each month depending of time. He drives 10 hours to get to where I am. So it is very hard at times and you also have to be understanding and not demanding as well.

 

Overall I think from my first post on Long distance I find my self thinking more mature and positive. I don’t know what life will bring us but I am ready.

If you have any questions or been through something similar feel free comment helpful tips, or your experience.

❤ didi