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Forgotten post | Long distance relationship

Hi guys,
honestly I feel bad for noting continuing with the schedule I planed or made more posts. I feel like my inspiration left for a while and I am looking for it. Not that I don’t like my blog I do I feel it has helped me gain confidence and made me a little more creative.

I love posting because I use it as somewhere I can write and write my true feelings. Today I want to share more about my long distance relationship, as you know my boyfriend left already and it been 1 month and about 3 weeks already.

To be honest it’s been the MOST EMOTIONAL year yet! I felt the last year will be a piece of cake, but it’s been the hardest. I feel we kind if lost communication, I don’t know if it’s normal or something is really wrong. I saw him not that long ago I felt so happy but he felt different. Like he was with me but his mind was somewhere else. It honestly scares me, that we’re together because we’re use to each other and not because of what we felt.

Everyone thinks different and it’s hard having a relationship now a long distance relationship is harder and has to have more effort. Which I honestly don’t know if I have any more.

I didn’t want to make this post super dramatic or with drama….I don’t really share in depth my relationship but its hard and its either going to make us stronger or break us.

***I actually wrote this a few months back, in April I believe. And now it’s been almost 5 months since I wrote that first part of the post. For some reason I didn’t publish it. But what I can remember it was a hard month. And it keeps being hard, for that moment I thought I lost my best friend…because that’s what my boyfriend is to me.

I want to post more for you guys and share my adventures but at the same time my passion which is makeup, fashion, and crafts. And also show more of my life style.

But overall long distance relationship is sooooooooooo hard. Now I am 2 years and 6 months with my boyfriend and we keep trying and making this better each day. All I have to say nobody is perfect and communication is the key honestly. And when you feel like something is wrong just say it and say what you really feel. Only 3 months for my boyfriend to be back and plans are to move in or even marriage. But we both decided since we’ve been far away from each other to enjoy our relationship as boyfriend/girlfriend a little longer.

thanks for reading, and stay tune for more things,

Didi

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Growing up | jounaling

Hi guys happy Wednesday !
Hope you guys are having a wonderful day, today I returned to work after a week of vacation.

So for tonight I decided to sit down and just write. I have always been the type of person who likes to write. You know its either the person who loves Math or English…I was always the English type but I like more free writing where grammar and rules are not important.

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For today I wanted to write about growing up. Like seriously when did I grew up? I think about it more lately. I think more about my future, I have bills, responsibilities, other things to buy other than clothes and makeup how I use to.

I think about marriage, kids, birth control, my future business, my relationship with my boyfriend, and how in two years I’ll be planning my little sisters quinceanera.

WOW time flies. But I decided to live life. It sounds weird because every single day we live life but I mean wake up with a smile not grumpy, being grateful for he little things, having adventures…something that I really want to do is travel. I want to see the world, Paris, Italy, London, Rome, New York, Miami, the Mississippi River, Los Cabos, Canada, Hawaii, etc, etc ! ❤ Just writing about them makes me all excited.

I feel beyond grateful with the life I have and what I went through as a kid which was not easy it wasn’t the worst but it was hard for me. My parents divorce, my grandpa passing away, trying to fit in, being insecure was a big part.

Growing up does not have to be all bad, we just need to accept that we have more responsibilities, think about doing something twice before doing, and always think about the consequences it might bring our future.

I love doing these types of posts, not only am I interested in fashion and makeup but I love journalism I feel like Carrie Bradshaw(from Sex in the City). I hope you guys enjoy them too as much as I like writing them, it inspires and distresses me I like to write as in therapy. I totally recommend it !

If you enjoyed this or like personal posts feel free to let me know or like depending on the results I’ll make more.

Good night! ❤ didi

 

 

 

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How to deal with Long Distance Relationship? | Didi’s Life

Hi Loves, happy Tuesday!

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As promised here I am once again with another post. I got of work about two hours ago, I worked out, showered, and now ready to see some Netflix…Any suggestions of what is good to watch?

So I have been in a Long Distance Relationship for what seems has been all my relationship. I already have 2 years with my boyfriend. Did I believe I would make it to our second anniversary? Honestly….no.

Having a long distance relationship is HARD, emotional, tiring, confusing….did I say hard?

But along with the bad things also some good comes along. For example the time you actually get to see each other. The plans, and goals you have especially if your in a more mature relationship.

For me I do want to marry my boyfriend. My plans are to marry him and have our own place and have a family. I am pretty young for most people, but for me 23 is just a number. I will be ready when I am if that’s next month or in 10 years.

Just because your in a relationship with someone that is far away doesn’t mean you should put your life aside. Or that just because he doesn’t texts or calls you means he does not love you. Trust me I learned !

With a long distance a lot comes in, for example is of two people putting their effort, use skype, whatsap, instagram, etc any app that helps you communicate. Find a way to have an intimate time(and no I just don’t mean sexual) but find time to actually sit down and talk and yous seriously have to talk if not you’ll loose that communication. But at the same time give each other space.

I’ve always said we have to learn to be far away from each other to learn how to be together. It’s hard saying goodbye but when it comes for him to come back it’s the best feeling ever!

My boyfriend leaves for about 7 months to another state to work, he sometimes comes once or twice each month depending of time. He drives 10 hours to get to where I am. So it is very hard at times and you also have to be understanding and not demanding as well.

 

Overall I think from my first post on Long distance I find my self thinking more mature and positive. I don’t know what life will bring us but I am ready.

If you have any questions or been through something similar feel free comment helpful tips, or your experience.

❤ didi

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Quick UPDATE !

Hello Beautiful Readers from WordPress.

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I feel like this will be another “I’m sorry for not posting anything” posts, and I do apologize, I wanted to post more and show you my recent boughts for the holidays, makeup and DIYs I recently done.

Seriously a lot has happened this year and I get over whelmed and this will be a New Year Resolution to write more on the blog and make it better.

So I recently been obsessing with decorating my new house for the holidays. Our theme this year is Winter Wonderland. We have a tree now, that glitters real pretty. Everything is slowing coming along, except that we don’t have furniture in the living room except for the tree.

So remember when I did a post on long distance relationships ? This was probably one of the firsts posts I did. Well next month it will be our second anniversary. My thoughts? It HARD, TOUGH, EMOTIONAL, HEARTBREAKING, the most overwhelming but at the same time wonderful feeling when I see him. We still have plans with a future, marriage, family…but I’ve decided that I’ll let God decide on that and not worry about that any more.

So one of my goals for next year is going on a trip, I still don’t know where. I kind of want to go to New York, Boston, London, Paris…any suggestions?

Sorry if this is the most boring you’ve ever read before. I have a dentist appointment in a bit so I wanted to write something. I also have off Sunday, Monday and Tuesday off now so more time for blogging.

Thanks for the support ❤ Didi

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Little Random Post

Hi fellow readers,

I feel unaccomplished sometimes when I think of this blog. The reason why I began to write was to share my love and ideas of fashion and makeup or tips I found helpful and share personal events and give my advice. At the moment I can’t post as often as I use to, with job and life-situations I don’t have that much free time anymore.

But I have posted more to my blog’s instagram follow me there: beautytime101dc.

The holidays are almost here and I am so excited, remember my long distance relationship? Still is like that for now (second year) but another good thing my boyfriend is almost here, and that makes me so happy! Long distance relationships are so hard and I felt depressed often times. I respect those who go threw it and don’t get to see their love ones, at least I know I get to see him once a month and after 7 months he’s back.

As you may know I love makeup and I’ve been trying different makeup brands, I recently got Colourpop and MAC items which I’ll be doing a review both on Instagram and here. On my insta I’m pretty sure it will be something brief and I’ll have a more depth one here.

So today I sat down not knowing what I was going to write about but I guess it’s a random life update. I do apologize if its something you’re not interested in but I promise fashion, holiday and makeup poss soon !

See you soon ! ❤ Didi

 

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Maturing, College, Marriage, Family? |beautytime101

Hola, hope you guys are having an awesome day !
I feel so grateful with everyone who shows support to my blog/page. I know I’ve said more than once in my posts but I’m truly happy with the response I’ve had. It motivates me to keep it going 🙂

Sooooooo, today I decided to share a bit of my life, some won’t care…some will enjoy reading. If you enjoy personal posts like this or just other than beauty please like or comment what you enjoy reading in my blog.

untitledMaybe you have read other posts of mine and read that I am finishing my college. I am getting a degree on Business Administration, hard way but also at the end of the tunnel.
I moved from my hometown(Vegas, NV) about almost 6 years, and currently living near the boarder of Mexico. It was a huuuuggeee change, but in culture not s many since I am Mexican I would visit all the time since I was a baby.

At the moment I have a boyfriend, which we’ve been almost 8 months together ❤
It’s been a few months you can say, but since the beginning there’s been that spark. The feeling I didn’t think  could experience. Or get loved the way I am, its truly been a blessing to find someone like my boyfriend. We are currently 7 hours away from each other due to his job. At the moment no marriage for me, I finish college this fall semester and will go into a university in spring 2016. I do want to marry and obviously have a family. But for now just get over with school, keep my relationship stable with my boyfriend and do good in very thing else.

Actually staring a family and thinking about getting married gets me all excited. I want to have a beautiful beach wedding, and a couple of years later start a family…doesn’t everyone dream of that day? Well I do and more each day ever since my boyfriend and I started talking about it…we were about three/four months together…was it too soon?
I don’t know but it seems right to start thinking about my future and start doing some plans, even though the thought of it scares me. So school for now, and get a great job, then I guess marriage. I also wanted to wait since I feel I need to mature, and be more independent. I am the older sibling but I feel even my 11 year old sister is more mature at times. I don’t know but having an older boyfriend (4 years older) has made me sit down and think.

I don’t know what’s coming next, but I sure have a lot of plans ahead…